Some Tips to be Successful
1. Ten things you should never do in life
i) never be indecisive (if you don't make choices for yourself, somebody else will make them for you)
ii) never tried to explain to someone why you are worth of their time (if someone is meant to be in your life; they'll stay no matter what the circumstances are)
iii) never compare yourself to others (define yourself on your own terms)
iv) never live a sedentary life ( get up, exercise, walk, cook, played, hike, etc - do something)
v) never spend time with people who don't inspire you to be better ( if you're the smartest in your group, you need to change your group)
vi) never ruminate or obsess over how someone treated you badly or did you wrong
vii) never be the person who always makes excuses for why they didn't do something (always take responsibility for your words and actions)
viii) don't take things personally (people's words are more about them than about you)
ix) don't hang onto your past grievances (holding onto hate only hurts yourself)
x) don't take yourself too seriously (embrace humour and enjoy a light-hearted approach to life)
(main source: Priyanshu Gupta, 2023)
2. Six things that can help you live a better life
i) speak less (let your performance talk for you)
ii) listen more (you cannot learn if you don't listen; you cannot grow, if you do not learn)
iii) react less (less you react, the better you can respond)
iv) observe more (the more you observe, the clearer the situation)
v) the clearer the situation, the better your reaction (the better your reaction, the better your performance)
vi) try to appreciate other's work (give credit where credit is due)
(main source: Elia Juniana, 2023)